This indeed sounds like a very tricky situation. It does sound like he thinks of you as the girl he wants to take home to his parents and sees a life with her. But, if I’m being completely honest, for a romantic relationship to be complete, sex is as important as love. Somehow we end up thinking that if a guy loves us, he wouldn’t want to think about sex all the time and spend more time on doing lovey-dovey stuff. The truth is that the more a man wants you in bed, the more he’s into you. It’s their way of showing their women how much they desire them. At the same time, if, for some reason sex is missing from their primary relationship, they are also capable of compartmentalising and engaging in a purely physical relationship with another woman while being in love with one. It doesn’t mean that he loves you any less, but he’s simply taking care of his needs. I suggest you to consult a good gynaecologist for your medical issue. Vaginismus is treatable and there’s no reason why you should have to live with it. Until then, there are a lot of ways that you can bring sex into your relationship without penetration. Why don’t you explore them and get a little adventurous? This way you’ll be able to complete your relationship and keep your man solely to yourself! All the very best! Prachi
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